Decisions……

Happy New Year Everyone!! I hope you’re all doing well and enjoying the day, as you all know we have now officially entered 2019 and with 2018 behind us, you’ll find yourself thinking on a lot of things, like for example whether you should have tea or coffee in the morning, probably should’ve had coffee, but I thought tea would be better even though i’m tired, but that’s alright, my point is, always go with the better decision.

Speaking about decisions, we all end up with a few on our belts, we come across something that catches our eye and we become interested in wanting to check it out and when we do finally check it out, we aren’t always quite sure whether we should give it go or not or you find yourself having to choose between two different things or more, but again you keep finding yourself up in the air with both decisions, so how do you decide exactly!? Well that can be a bit tricky for some who aren’t the greatest at making decisions, it can also feel like a task just to try and figure something out.

Let’s be real here, we don’t all have things figured out, some of us figure it out eventually and some of us still aren’t sure, but that’s okay that’s gonna happen, but when it comes to figuring things out, it’s all about how you figure them out, stressing and putting pressure on yourself, well that’s gonna make your decision making a lot harder to sort, giving yourself a hard time with anything that brings you frustration will only lead you to become more frustrated.

To prevent that from happening, the best thing to do is to try your best and make it simple for yourself and it doesn’t hurt to go a little easy on yourself as well. We all have that self critic in us and when it comes to things we aren’t liking or things that kinda give us a hard time, we don’t tend to realize how much we dial up that self critic version of ourselves, it’s not a bad thing to be hard on ourselves, because it’s gonna happen it just means we want ourselves to do better, but we should really pay attention to how we talk to ourselves because we may not think it is, but it’s super important.

Moving on from that though, decisions how do we decide on something when we aren’t sure on it!? Well I know that when we aren’t sure we tend to make rash decisions, sometimes we’ll wave things away without really giving it a try and sometimes we don’t really sit and think about the things that are in our minds and you really want to have a little balance of both. Thinking too much on something, is the worst thing you can do, because not only will it drive you nuts, but the more you find yourself thinking on things the more chance you’ll try and convince yourself not to give it a try.

As for the just trying something and not giving it much thought thing, that one is a balance in itself because there’s a chance you’ll end up enjoying it or you’ll end up saying that you probably should’ve though it through, so with this one it’ll just be a win, lose, win situation, why do I say that you might think!? Well at least with this, you can say you tried it, even if you end up not really feeling it as you’re trying it out, but again you’ll be able to say you gave it a go which is a good thing here. What i’m trying to say is when it comes to decisions: Try and make it simple for yourself, go a little easy on yourself as well and have a little balance with thinking it over, but don’t do too much thinking on it and just give a try and see what it’s like.

How do you guys handle decision making, do you find it easy or a little harder to master!? Feel free to share your thoughts down in the comments, also let me know how your days going, i’d love to hear about it!!

All the love ❤ ❤

~Lexa~

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