We all at some point are meant to set a couple of goals for ourselves, some of us can set goals for days and others it can take a bit to set a couple of goals…………some of us aim very high when it comes to setting goals, while some of us don’t, now is bad not to set high goals!? I’m going to say no and yes, no because you should always want yourself to continue on progressing and hitting all the different things you set for yourself.

However when you aim high, you also have to realize that when you give yourself a specific goal you’re trying to reach, just know that sometimes it won’t always go according to plan and that you’re not going to always hit that goal when you want to hit it, sometimes it’ll take a good while before you actually hit that said goal or maybe it won’t because when you really want something, you’ll be the kind of person to go after it and makes sure that you complete the thing that you wanted to complete.

It all really depends on you and how your work ethic is as well as how determined you really are…………….but if you don’t end up getting to the goal that you set, don’t you worry about it, maybe for you it’s going to take a bit more time, frustrating yes, but sometimes a little more hard work at a not so speedy pace can sometimes be worth it, not all of us are able to keep up and there’s nothing wrong with that.

However you have to stay determine and continue to work hard with everything that you do, don’t throw in the towel so quickly, keep going and don’t give up. Okay maybe you don’t have much goals set yet, but that doesn’t mean that you won’t ever, you just have to keep trying, don’t look down on yourself when you don’t have the answers yet and don’t stress yourself out so much trying to figure it out.

If you need to figure it out fine, but don’t beat yourself up so much, you have to go with the things that naturally speak to you, don’t think too hard on it…….just focus on the main things your aiming for and do your best to get there, don’t listen to your thoughts because they will only ever be a distraction to you, also stop telling yourself that you’re no good with things and that you only have to focus on one thing, if you want to focus on one thing fine then do that, but if you want to keep yourself busy, why not try and pick a few other things to go with that main thing you want to focus on!?

It doesn’t have to be this huge thing, but it might help with the whole setting goals for yourself, you need to stop being afraid and start going for things more, you want people to stop telling you that you’re only good with certain things, then prove to yourself that you are capable of handling more than one thing, prove to yourself that you can, try and set a few simple goals and work your way from there without thinking so much about it.

Give it a try and don’t be afraid to set those high goals for yourself, because you never know what those kind of goals can bring you, you know you have it in you so stop trying to convince yourself that you’re not good enough, because you know that you are, you just need to finally let yourself know that.

All The Love ❤ ❤

~Lexa~