Hey everyone hope you’re all doing well, Happy Valentines Day to all you lovebirds out there………..to be completely honest I don’t really celebrate nor really like Valentines Day, my boyfriend doesn’t either, so we just pretty much skip it all together……….I know that it’s considered a holiday of some sort and a lot of people enjoy it, but personally to me, it’s just another day.
I don’t really feel like there’s anything special to it, but if some of you guys out there celebrate and enjoy it then go all out, do what you do with it, no ones stopping you, i’m just saying my opinion with it. Now i’m not saying it’s a bad holiday, I just don’t get why there should be a day to show someone you love them!? especially in a relationship, you should always do your best to show your partner how much you love them and care for them as well as how much they mean to you, it shouldn’t just only be on a specific day.
You might think that you have to go all out and do all these extravagant things for them……….but you really don’t need to do all of that, just spending time together at home or at a favorite place you both enjoy, heck you could just play videos game or watch a movie together (and not just the rom-coms kind, don’t know if I spelled that right, but you know what I mean)
You really don’t need to go above and beyond just to have a nice romantic time with your loved one, you guys can just do things simply, also you don’t need to always get roses and chocolates for your partner, unless that’s something they actually like then go on ahead, but what i’m trying to get at is Valentines Day shouldn’t be the only day you say “I love you and care about you” that should be an everyday thing.
Being there and showing your loved one how much they truly mean to you, even if you don’t say it all the time, as long as you remember to take the time to let them know that you’re thinking of them and that they mean a lot to you………that’s all you really have to do, just do your best.
When you really truly love someone, it doesn’t matter what you do, they’ll always appreciate it because they see you care so much and when they know you care, they’ll always be there for you and they won’t ever give up on you, even if you think they would or should and when you really truly love someone you don’t give up on them either…………..
When it comes to gifts like flowers, chocolates, jewelry ect……..all of that doesn’t matter, what matters is how you treat your partner, if you treat them with love and respect and you always do your best to let them know they’re super important to you, whether it’s saying I love you by getting them their favorite candy or food, watching your favorite movies or something funny or weird together, or just sitting and talking in the middle of the night with each other, you know stuff like that…………..
As long as you’re doing your best to let them know in some way, that’s what’s important, not the fancy shmancy stuff (I know that’s not a word, but it’s staying there) what’s important is just being there and showing them you care, whether that’s on their worst day or best day, even if you’re angry at each other, you should still always let each other know you love one another, no matter the situation.
Work for each other as well, because that’s also very important, never ever take the other for granted and always appreciate one another. Try not to give each other a hard time and always support each other in everything you guys do, but also look out for each other as well, because all of that is where the strongest love lies, so make sure to hold on tightly, because once you have something like that believe me………you don’t ever want to let that go, so always be sure to keep these in mind and I hope you all have a great day and for those celebrating Valentines Day, I hope you enjoy it.
All The Love ❤ ❤
Disclaimer: I’m gonna get a little cheesy here so if you don’t want to read this part, you may skip it, which i’m sure you will, maybe, I don’t know ha…….
P.S. Just wanted to send a huge I love you to my guy, although we don’t celebrate Valentines Day, I still want him to know that I love him with all of my heart and I know we aren’t able to be together at the moment, but I just want you to know that i’m really grateful and super lucky to have you, you’re my world and i’m just really thankful for you, I love you load my love, forever and always ❤ ❤