When People See The Best In You And Believe In You, Yet You Don’t See It In Yourself……..

It’s always crazy when you learn that people believe in you, you know!? especially when you for a long time didn’t believe in yourself all that much. We’ve all been through that at some point in our lives, something presents it’s self to us and we’re like “I don’t know about this” or we think of maybe trying something, but are afraid we’re not gonna be the best at it or we’re not good enough to do it…….yeah it happens to the best of us. The question is though, why is it that even when people tell us we’re capable of something and they believe in us, we still don’t believe them? It’s like no matter how much they tell us that we’re good enough and try to get us to see all the thing they see in us, we just brush it off and think they’re just saying that to make us feel good or something and sometimes some people do just say things to make us feel good because they don’t want us to feel a certain way (which isn’t always a bad thing) but what about those who really mean it!? It can be hard to decipher who’s real and who’s just feeling sorry for you.

People who truly want the best for you and can see the real you inside and out those are the kind of people you should surround yourself with, because they will always see the best in you even when you don’t see it in yourself. People who see you doing big things that you don’t even think that you can do because of how big it seems, those are the ones you should be around, because they will always try and make it seem simple just so you aren’t intimidated by it. People who don’t expect you to always stick to all the things you once loved and don’t force you to make a decision on things, but simply support anything and everything that you do even if it’s just the smallest things, keep them close because it doesn’t matter what you do or how you feel they will always be there to help you figure things out when you aren’t able to figure them out on your own.

You see anyone who sees so much in you and believes that you can do anything you put your mind to as well as wanting to help you succeed with whatever you’re trying to go after, those are the kind of people you need in your corner, because whenever you feel like giving up or you feel you’re not good enough for something, they will always push you hard for all the right reasons and make sure that you don’t give up and that you know you’re as good as you give yourself credit for. They’ll also tell you how you puttingΒ  yourself down isn’t what you should do and how you should really start believing in not only yourself, but all that you’re capable of when it comes to showing what you’re made of and that is what a real person who believes in you looks like and feels like.

When you finally find the people who truly just want to see you do well for yourself and you see how much they see in you that you don’t see in yourself, well that’s where you start to really look at yourself and say “Well if they believe I can do it, why shouldn’t I believe too!?” and from there you’re gonna want to not only make those who saw something in you proud, but also you’ll start to want to make yourself proud as well and help yourself see all the things you couldn’t see before. Sometimes we’re gonna come to that road where we just in a way give up on ourselves and just feel like “well what am I doing with myself!? ” There’s always gonna be someone to come along and show you why you’re here and help you through your journey of finding out what you’re mean’t to do with yourself, while also showing you why you should never give up on yourself even when it feels like there’s no hope. There’s always a way and you’re always gonna have people who when you feel like you’re just stuck in the dirt, they will dust you off and tell you to keep going while staying behind you just in case you need them again.

And that is my blog post for today, I kinda got inspired by my boyfriend here with this one because he’s one my biggest supporters, he never lets me kick myself down and when I don’t believe in myself, he always believes in me πŸ™‚ so yeah this is gonna sound cheesy to a lot of you but thanks love, i’m glad I have you…….and with that one I say hope you all enjoy the rest of your night/morning and evening ^_^

 

All The Love  ❀ ❀

~Lexa~

Negatives VS Positives

Although i’ve already written about fighting through the negatives and trying your best to stay positive, sometimes it’s better said then done you know………especially when you’re battling negatives all the time, I asked myself earlier how do you stay positive when all your around is negativity!? i’m still figuring that out actually and although I try my hardest to stay as positive as I can it’s so very hard………I just want to be able to feel good again, i’m sure you all have those days where no matter how hard you try and how hard you fight off the negativity you just somehow feel a little defeated too…….I know i’m meant to be positive here and i’ll do my best to turn this around someway, I just really feel this so much……….

Now let’s talk how we’re going to turn this around, so the question is how do you stay so positive when all you are around is negativity!? I don’t know……..I want to say I have all the answers and I wish I could tell you exactly how to stay positive in a wave of negativity, but I don’t even know……..all I know is we have to find and hold on to something that will keep us going and keep us from falling apart completely, just so we can have that bit of hope and faith that will somehow get us through the day and in the end will be worth all the pain and struggles we had to go through………

I don’t know if I turned this around and wrote this in a good light or anything, but what I was trying to get at is that whether you’re struggling in your life right now and you feel like days aren’t getting better or it’s just too hard to go on, please go on and keep pushing yourself somehow to get to where you want to be in life, because all that you’re feeling is only temporary, I know it doesn’t seem that way and you probably heard that from a lot of different people, but giving up and letting yourself be defeated isn’t what you want to do, you should never let negativity win because you’re only giving up on yourself when you do that so PLEASE……..please keep pushing and know that better days will come, sure it’s gonna take a bit of time, but they will……..and if you feel like you can’t push yourself look to those around you to help, I would suggest those who really understand and get you and always makes sure you don’t fall flat on your face. πŸ™‚

I hope you find your flashlight to guide you through the dark (I was inspired by Jessie J with that line lol XD) All the love ❀ ❀

~Lexa~

What do you do, when your mind constantly keeps you from staying positive?

It’s funny I actually wrote a journal entry on this last night, well the being positive part ha…….anyway the question i’m asking and maybe you are asking as well, what do you do when your mind constantly keeps you from staying positive!? That is the question isn’t it……Well to answer this question, that’s a little hard because I don’t even know half the time what to do when you’re trying your hardest to stay positive, but then end up having to face negative situations. It’s like no matter what you do the negatives always seem to overpower the positive mindset your trying to hold within yourself…..but even when that is, always try your hardest to breakthrough those negatives and keep that positive light you have even if it isn’t a lot.

As long as you have at least that bit of hope, faith, good light and energy for yourself that’s all you need and that’s all you should always focus on, no matter how bad everything is or seems around you always do everything you can to focus on your good light and good energy because that will help you through all of your darkest days even when it doesn’t seem like it. There will always be some days where you have to constantly battle within yourself trying to keep upbeat and positive when all you want to do is just stay within your thoughts and just deal with the negatives, but believe me when I say dealing with the negatives going on in your life isn’t the best thing for you, sure it’s easier to have your mind be clouded by all things bad and everything, but there’s always gonna be something there to help you outweigh the negatives and turn them into positives be it: Watching your favorite youtube channel, reading a book, listening to your favorites songs or even just sharing a laugh with some good and close friends.

No matter what it is that stops you from walking that positive road your trying to walk, you can always count on there being something to distract you from your mind and make you smile and happy again, even if it’s just for a little bit……always remember dark times aren’t always going to be around even though in the moment it seems that way, you will always find something to keep you going and help you through your path in life. Remember to keep in mind that you are stronger than your thoughts, all the difficult times you encounter in your life and just everything that is meant to keep you down.

That’s all I have to say with this one, hope I made sense and hopefully helped someone where they take this and keep it in their minds……….okay well I hope you all have a lovely day and i’m sending those who are going through a tough time at the moment or in general all the love and positive energy you might need ^_^

 

Stay strong, Keep moving forward and All the love to you all ❀ ❀

~Lexa~

The Journey Begins

Thanks for joining me on this new journey of mine, in all honesty I have no idea what i’m doing really, I made this blog just to be able to express myself and write down my thoughts and hopefully turn what I write down into a positive thing so I hope everything I write is good in some way and helps as well…….

Everyone has their journey in life, for some their journey is a little simpler and for others it’s a little more challenging. Whether yours is simple or a bit on the challenging side of town, it doesn’t make you different from others, if that makes sense (I hope so)……..for those who live a simple life, some people would think just because they’re not stressing as much as those going through some tough times in their own life that their life is not as difficult, but everyone goes through tough times even those you wouldn’t expect to.

You see when it comes to life journeys everyone has to walk their own path some get all the hardships and others get some of it, but not very much of it. Life journeys are all about what you take from everything even the battles you go through in your lifetime, but no matter what path your walking be it simple, a little challenging or in between even……always remember to keep your head up, stay focus and just keep moving forward because every journey teaches you something about yourself and everything else around you πŸ™‚

~Lexa~

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. β€” Izaak Walton

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