Negatives VS Positives

Although i’ve already written about fighting through the negatives and trying your best to stay positive, sometimes it’s better said then done you know………especially when you’re battling negatives all the time, I asked myself earlier how do you stay positive when all your around is negativity!? i’m still figuring that out actually and although I try my hardest to stay as positive as I can it’s so very hard………I just want to be able to feel good again, i’m sure you all have those days where no matter how hard you try and how hard you fight off the negativity you just somehow feel a little defeated too…….I know i’m meant to be positive here and i’ll do my best to turn this around someway, I just really feel this so much……….

Now let’s talk how we’re going to turn this around, so the question is how do you stay so positive when all you are around is negativity!? I don’t know……..I want to say I have all the answers and I wish I could tell you exactly how to stay positive in a wave of negativity, but I don’t even know……..all I know is we have to find and hold on to something that will keep us going and keep us from falling apart completely, just so we can have that bit of hope and faith that will somehow get us through the day and in the end will be worth all the pain and struggles we had to go through………

I don’t know if I turned this around and wrote this in a good light or anything, but what I was trying to get at is that whether you’re struggling in your life right now and you feel like days aren’t getting better or it’s just too hard to go on, please go on and keep pushing yourself somehow to get to where you want to be in life, because all that you’re feeling is only temporary, I know it doesn’t seem that way and you probably heard that from a lot of different people, but giving up and letting yourself be defeated isn’t what you want to do, you should never let negativity win because you’re only giving up on yourself when you do that so PLEASE……..please keep pushing and know that better days will come, sure it’s gonna take a bit of time, but they will……..and if you feel like you can’t push yourself look to those around you to help, I would suggest those who really understand and get you and always makes sure you don’t fall flat on your face. 🙂

I hope you find your flashlight to guide you through the dark (I was inspired by Jessie J with that line lol XD) All the love ❤ ❤

~Lexa~

What do you do, when your mind constantly keeps you from staying positive?

It’s funny I actually wrote a journal entry on this last night, well the being positive part ha…….anyway the question i’m asking and maybe you are asking as well, what do you do when your mind constantly keeps you from staying positive!? That is the question isn’t it……Well to answer this question, that’s a little hard because I don’t even know half the time what to do when you’re trying your hardest to stay positive, but then end up having to face negative situations. It’s like no matter what you do the negatives always seem to overpower the positive mindset your trying to hold within yourself…..but even when that is, always try your hardest to breakthrough those negatives and keep that positive light you have even if it isn’t a lot.

As long as you have at least that bit of hope, faith, good light and energy for yourself that’s all you need and that’s all you should always focus on, no matter how bad everything is or seems around you always do everything you can to focus on your good light and good energy because that will help you through all of your darkest days even when it doesn’t seem like it. There will always be some days where you have to constantly battle within yourself trying to keep upbeat and positive when all you want to do is just stay within your thoughts and just deal with the negatives, but believe me when I say dealing with the negatives going on in your life isn’t the best thing for you, sure it’s easier to have your mind be clouded by all things bad and everything, but there’s always gonna be something there to help you outweigh the negatives and turn them into positives be it: Watching your favorite youtube channel, reading a book, listening to your favorites songs or even just sharing a laugh with some good and close friends.

No matter what it is that stops you from walking that positive road your trying to walk, you can always count on there being something to distract you from your mind and make you smile and happy again, even if it’s just for a little bit……always remember dark times aren’t always going to be around even though in the moment it seems that way, you will always find something to keep you going and help you through your path in life. Remember to keep in mind that you are stronger than your thoughts, all the difficult times you encounter in your life and just everything that is meant to keep you down.

That’s all I have to say with this one, hope I made sense and hopefully helped someone where they take this and keep it in their minds……….okay well I hope you all have a lovely day and i’m sending those who are going through a tough time at the moment or in general all the love and positive energy you might need ^_^

 

Stay strong, Keep moving forward and All the love to you all ❤ ❤

~Lexa~