Podcasting Schedule….

How’s Everyone’s Thursday Been Going!? Hope you all have been enjoying yourselves, alright so I wanted to write a quick post on the schedule of my podcast episodes, now I’ve been trying my hand on recording podcast episodes for about a month now and at first it was just to give a try and see how I liked it and everything, but since then, I have actually been enjoying myself when recording episodes, I actually really like it! Now I will admit that at first I didn’t really have an actual schedule, I was just posting whenever I recorded a new episode, but I like to think that I have found a good footing on the days that I upload to Anchor and Spotify, I always record my episodes towards the evening on Fridays and sometimes I’ll also upload on that day depending on the length of the episode, if it’s not too long then I’ll have it up then, but if I need to look at it a bit, then you normally see it on a Monday or other days!

Now so far my episode uploads are, Fridays (Recording always, uploads every so often) Mondays and Wednesdays, I’m also going to be adding Saturdays, but just like Fridays it’ll be on certain days only on Saturdays! Now to give you an insight on what my content of the episodes I share at times on my podcast, it’s just a hangout session kind of podcast, I like to share upon topics of music, certain video games and just give my best thoughts to those kind of topics, I also try and share on some thoughts of my own in terms of little reminders and personal things that I might write here on this blog and want to share sometimes on my podcast, just in case I have other things to add that maybe a little too long of post to write! It’s pretty much interest based the content of my Podcast,

I share on loads of different topics mean something to me in the moment! I just want everyone that comes by to have a listen to chill out and hopefully enjoy themselves, because I enjoy myself, so hopefully with a set schedule so far, anyone reading this or listening because this is probably going to be in the next episode that I do, you’ll know when to look out for it, I also post new episodes and even blog posts on my Twitter so if ever you’re unsure to when I upload or just want to catch up or say hi even, you can find me there, my Twitter is literally the name of my blog Life As A Daydreamer I’d like to think I’m pretty friendly, I don’t mind getting to know people and say hi, I can be a bit shy, but I can also be the one to start conversation too depending how I feel haha!

Those are my upload days so far with my podcast episodes, if by any chance I need to change it or I got other things to add on anything, You’ll see it in a new blog post update of course, this promoting thing is very new to me and I can get a bit nervous with it, but I’ve been doing my best with it and everything else I do, which is all I can really do, but yeah if you would like to come by and hang out with me, those have been the days I’ve found myself uploading the most and that’s why I thought I’d just write a post on it! I have a few episodes up now if you would like to have a listen, some are a bit lengthy I’ll be honest, but I do have shorter episodes too, so get cozy, grab a snack, friend, pet, favorite drink and come by and hang out if you like!!

Daydreamer’s Podcast is the name of my Podcast and like I said a bit earlier you can find it on either Anchor which is where it’s hosted or you can have a listen on Spotify, maybe you prefer it as background noise instead of a sit and listen which is completely fine, however you choose to enjoy it! I hope you all are having a great evening or day in general and I hope to see you around ^_^

All The Love ❤ ❤

Lexa

I Swore Myself I’d Leave Myself Alone……

For those wondering, this line is from one of my favorite songs by one of my all time favorite artists, i’ve talked about her before, Alexz Johnson, not sure if that rings a bell, but…..the last time I talked about her, was when I was talking about her latest song called Weight, it’s been a while since I actually listened to that song, now she’s got new ones, plus a new album, that I still haven’t heard…..there’s a lot of songs from the artists I listen to that I need to check out, I always think of listening to them, but I never really get around to it, I might have to pick a day to just sit and have a listen to them.

But enough about music talk, that’s not actually where it was going….I just thought i’d have a chat about things if that’s alright…..if you do want to talk about music do let me know and i’ll make sure to write a separate post focusing on that……if you’re curious to check out the post that I mentioned you can find it here: Now Playing….Weight By Alexz Johnson

Anyway let’s have a chat shall we!?…..okay so i’m going to be honest i’m not really sure what i’m planning on talking about, I just know that i’d like to chat a bit, now normally i’d express the things i’m wanting to express, but maybe we should do it a little differently, how about we talk on the line of Alexz’s song careless and it’s meaning, now when you look at it, you’d say it’s pretty self explanatory right!? Yeah well i’d say so too, anytime I hear this song and this line comes up in the song, I always feel it and it’s because it’s a relatable line, most of us don’t know how to leave ourselves alone or better yet ease up on ourselves, we’re always so harsh for some reason.

I mean i’m sure that reason is to make sure we’re our best self, which is great, but we always tend to be the most harsh when we know we’re already feeling a certain way, it’s like even when we know we should shape up and get over our feelings, we’re still harsh about it, saying things like “you’re always doing that” “why can’t you just stop thinking so hard” and so on and it always feels like there’s two versions of ourselves the being that we are, but also this other person whose meant to be there to keep us moving or at least does they’re best to keep us on our feet……

Now we all know the saying on “tough love” and for some it works, but others not always, I mean why do we always think being judgmental and scolding ourselves is the best thing to do!? Why can’t we instead be a little patient with ourselves!? If there’s a moment where we’re feeling agitated, emotional and other non great feelings, why can’t we support ourselves for a moment and just allow ourselves to feel!?

This might sound confusing and may not make much sense……but what I mean is, we shouldn’t go screaming at ourselves because we’re feeling a certain way and we shouldn’t go judging ourselves either, getting more upset with ourselves especially when we’re already upset, doesn’t really fix things does it!? If anything it only makes us more upset,

because there’s more pressure being added, now sure pressure is apart of life, but do we really need to give ourselves more pressure!? We have to be better at being patient with ourselves and not be so harsh with the things we do, especially with how we handle our emotions and thoughts, because those are the big things that really can get to us, if we let it…….

I think instead of going for the attack, the best way to handle those moments, is to just be more aware and do our best to make sure we don’t overload and if we know we need a moment to release thoughts, emotions and so fourth, we just gotta let ourselves have that moment, but we also shouldn’t allow ourselves to get wrapped in it for too long,

Just take it as going for a walk or hiking of some sort, take that moment, but don’t allow it to overtake you when you need it and also just patience……we may need to take this line of Alexz’s song as a reminder for the times we go to be harsh to ourselves, but stop because we’re having to remember to be aware not to, maybe if we do that, we’d see a bit of a difference.

But that’s all I have, now before we close this off, I just wanted to share that, there’s a new video on my channel if you’re interested, I uploaded it Wednesday, since we’re getting close to midnight here, i’m just having a bit of a chat, but if you want to check that out, you can find it here: 7pm With A Different View but anyway I should probably head to sleep now, seeing as it’s now midnight, I hope you all are well and you guys have a good night.

All The Love ❤ ❤

Lexa

Let It Go, Let It Be (These Are Also Song Titles)……

Just so everyone’s not confused, I only wrote this so I could look back at the title and make myself laugh, it’s not clever and i’m sure it’s not funny to you guys, but doing things like this, reminds me to laugh for the moment and not think too much about things so intensively, which can be hard, because I know the more I write on the post the more i’m going to end up back in my mind slowly, so it helps to have titles like these so while i’m writing,

I’ll remember to laugh for the moment on how weird I can be, even when it’s not really all that weird, don’t mind me much……that being said though, since we have a title about it, how about we talk upon this topic a little.

First i’m just going to say, i’m not really sure what i’m writing really i’m kinda just free styling here….that’s not a word is it!? I’m kinda just writing as I go along pretty much. When it comes to letting it go or it be, whatever that IT is, we’re not talking about the clown here just to clarify okay!!

It’s more about things in general, although i’m pretty sure i’ve talked about this before, but sometimes you have different perspectives, so it’s okay if you want to talk about things more than once.

Letting things go or be, what does it mean!? Well it can mean a number of things to be fair, but it mainly means not over stressing, not allowing things to get to you as much, especially when it’s not in your control or if it something really small. Now we all know this right!?

Yet……we don’t keep it with us even though we know it’s important to, that being said, sometimes, even most times, we can’t help, but hold things close, especially when it has special value or when it means something to us.

It should be easy to figure out what should be held on to and what shouldn’t, but there are moments and times where it can become a little gray when it comes to knowing what to keep and hold on to and what we should let be and let go of, now this could be for anything really, but where i’m trying to get at is more life with a side of mind related…..we all know life is quite the ride and everything and we also know how our minds work.

Combine those two and boy will you have quite the show ahead of you, a lot of the things we choose to grasp on to are things we aren’t always able to control, yet we think we can or we still try to, then you have the mind, which likes to store and store until can’t anymore, however it still believes it’s possible, now that wouldn’t be a bad thing, if what it was storing was helpful and important, sometimes it’ll do that, but most times it’ll have unwanted things that really aren’t great, yet it feels like it has to be there.

For example, you know how sometimes we read books or are looking at something important, interesting, stuff like that and there are things you want to remember or think “hey that’s cool, let me go and keep that in mind” so you highlight it and circle it, you feel all this information coming to you and you love it, so you continue to add things here and there to remember, but as you’re reading on and looking at things,

You don’t realize how much you’re actually highlighting and it’s not until the very end when you look at everything and notice that you’ve apparently found everything to be important so now you have all this neat information, yeah, buuut…..you aren’t able to tell what is actually really important and what is just extra information.

True fact actually: I used to do that, if I was reviewing or looking at something, I wouldn’t really know what was important and useful, so I ended up highlighting everything I felt was important, but would later end up really confused and would stress out trying to figure it out.

That’s how are brains can be, it’ll highlight everything and keep it and then later go into over drive trying to decide what’s actually useful and what’s not, most time it can’t tell the difference so it’ll just store everything, why!? I don’t know and maybe that’s the reason it does that because we ourselves aren’t always sure what is worth holding on to and what we should just let be……we give ourselves too much stress and a lot of it, just comes from small things, things that shouldn’t give us stress, but does, it’s a weird thing.

Trying to understand it, is also a weird thing, because even if we know it’s ridiculous and we’re upsetting ourselves with it, we still allow it……why!? I wish I could answer that, but I wouldn’t be in a good place to do so, because I do this, I do it a lot, you try not to, but it’s not easy, that’s why we always do everything we can to distract ourselves and although it’ll help for the moment it’s only temporary……..sometimes we don’t have a choice though, somethings are okay to let go of with ease, including the small things,

but with other things, sometimes we don’t want to get rid of it completely, even if we should or think we should, we don’t, because when it means a lot and it’s something you want to always keep near you, you hold on to it, you keep it in a safe place, it may go away from you, but it doesn’t mean you have to forget it or let it go…..sometimes you gotta just give things time,

You can keep it and put it away for a bit, try not to over clutter it though okay……keep it as clear as possible and when it’s time to return to it, you will. In the meantime however, anything that shouldn’t be stressed or thought about, you know all that junk mail and useless thinking, yeah just put that to the side and clear it away when you’re able to, no need to make everything look like a dump, just really go through and sort it all,

If you need to categorize it go right ahead, if you know it’ll take some time, take all the time you need, it’s not easy letting go of things, when you feel you’ve got all that you need sorted, you’ll know and feel it!!

As for stressing on small stuff and things you can’t control, those are best to let be, at least until you’re sure you’re able to figure out something, but for most things, you just gotta give it time or let it work itself out, because one way or another, you find that in the end it somehow always does.

All The Love ❤ ❤

Lexa