No not that kind of talk if your wondering, it’s more serious, although that kind of talk is serious too….we’re not going to talk about that here though. Hearing the words “we need to talk” or “I need to talk to you” is one of the few words that makes my stomach sink, I mean let’s be real,
No one like those words, it always leads to a conversation you don’t want to hear majority of the time, yet have to face sometimes. It’s just one of those talks you’d rather avoid than talk about, but it’s the only way to talk about things that need talking about, avoiding it only makes the prolong of it worst and more serious and you end up feeling terrible because you knew the conversation needed to be brought up, but refused to approach it,
because of the thought of what that talk might turn into….a lot of the time it might not be all that bad, but it doesn’t mean the thought of it isn’t…..assumptions aren’t the best way to go though, you don’t really know what you’re going to be talking about, until you’re actually talking about it, whether it is “The Talk” or not, you should still talk.
Which talk approach is your worst nightmare!? “We need to talk”, “I need to talk to you” or “can I talk to you!?” share your thoughts below
Here I have a song that I haven’t heard for a good while, i’ve just recently started listening to it again, i’ve listened to it today actually, it’s still as good as I remember…..the song that i’m talking about is called Whatever Love Means and it’s performed by a UK band by the name of Lux Lisbon.
Now i’ve been a fan of theirs as well as their music for quite some time, although it’s been a good while since i’ve last checked them out and heard any of their new material, which I probably should look into, I mean it’s been a long time since i’ve kept up to date with them…….
They’re a really good band these guys, they’re not really well known not globally anyway, i’m sure they’re well known in their hometown and that, but even though they aren’t that big, they still are very talented!!
They have a whole lot of great songs, such as Demons You Show, Memento Mori, Bullingdon Club and so many others…..Whatever Love Means has got to be one of my all time favorites from them (along with Demons You Show and Memento Mori) I really admire the way they write their songs, it’s like nothing i’ve ever heard before……
I know that i’m always talking about writing styles, especially when it comes to music (it’s my favorite to talk about) it’s just amazing when you’re listening to a song and you get to listen and hear the way it’s come along and analyze the different writing ways of an artist.
With Lux Lisbon the way they write their music is definitely worth admiring, I can’t quite describe their writing style, each song that they give us is different to the last, it’s amazing really!!
Whatever Love Means, is one of those songs that talks upon the topic of relationships and giving it a chance, even though you’re not sure of the way it could go, you’ll also hear in the song Stu (lead vocalist of the band)
Sing about trying to hold in the feelings of when you know you’re feeling something stronger when it comes to liking someone, but not being able to express those feeling due to the words unable to find themselves, so even though you know you’re feeling strong feelings, you would rather pretend it doesn’t mean anything then have to let your true feelings out, that’s my take on the song anyway, I could be completely off for all I know……
Although the lines to the lyrics “Come on words don’t fail me, cut off my tongue and hurt like hell” and the lines “Words are so cheap, they just cut so goddamn easily”makes me think it could be that,
However there’s also the lines “Take out your heart and see a hole in your soul where it used to be” that part of the song makes me think that it’s the opposite to what I think the song is about……
This song I know is on relationships, but the way it’s written can make you think of it in different ways, meaning wise……i’m actually getting the sense right now that the meaning to it could also be about actions speaking louder than words, if that’s the case the lines “Words are so cheap, they just cut so goddamn easily” makes much more sense, either way, the songs great,
I would definitely recommend giving it a listen, it’s a really good song and the bands pretty great too!! I think the best thing about Lux Lisbon is the way they bring their voices together, the female vocalist (which I had to go and find her name) Charlie is her name, I like her voice, i’d have her in the category of unique voices, it’s not overly strong, but it’s still great!!
The way Lux Lisbon’s vocals combine with one another is pretty amazing, it really does work well, getting to hear not just their music, but also just the way they work well vocally and they way they write their songs……it’s a treat, a very well done kind of treat. Here’s the song if you’re interested in checking them out: Whatever Love Means By Lux Lisbon.
I’ll have to check out their latest songs soon, i’m sure i’ve missed some, i’m interested to see, well hear, what they’re going to be like, i’ll get back to you and let you know my thoughts once i’ve found out……in the meantime,
I’ll leave some of their other songs that i’ve mentioned, in case you like this one and want to check out their other ones, if you have a different interpretation on what you think the song could be about, feel free to leave a comment and let me know what you think of the song as well ^_^
Hey everyone hope you’re all doing well, Happy Valentines Day to all you lovebirds out there………..to be completely honest I don’t really celebrate nor really like Valentines Day, my boyfriend doesn’t either, so we just pretty much skip it all together……….I know that it’s considered a holiday of some sort and a lot of people enjoy it, but personally to me, it’s just another day.
I don’t really feel like there’s anything special to it, but if some of you guys out there celebrate and enjoy it then go all out, do what you do with it, no ones stopping you, i’m just saying my opinion with it. Now i’m not saying it’s a bad holiday, I just don’t get why there should be a day to show someone you love them!? especially in a relationship, you should always do your best to show your partner how much you love them and care for them as well as how much they mean to you, it shouldn’t just only be on a specific day.
You might think that you have to go all out and do all these extravagant things for them……….but you really don’t need to do all of that, just spending time together at home or at a favorite place you both enjoy, heck you could just play videos game or watch a movie together (and not just the rom-coms kind, don’t know if I spelled that right, but you know what I mean)
You really don’t need to go above and beyond just to have a nice romantic time with your loved one, you guys can just do things simply, also you don’t need to always get roses and chocolates for your partner, unless that’s something they actually like then go on ahead, but what i’m trying to get at is Valentines Day shouldn’t be the only day you say “I love you and care about you” that should be an everyday thing.
Being there and showing your loved one how much they truly mean to you, even if you don’t say it all the time, as long as you remember to take the time to let them know that you’re thinking of them and that they mean a lot to you………that’s all you really have to do, just do your best.
When you really truly love someone, it doesn’t matter what you do, they’ll always appreciate it because they see you care so much and when they know you care, they’ll always be there for you and they won’t ever give up on you, even if you think they would or should and when you really truly love someone you don’t give up on them either…………..
When it comes to gifts like flowers, chocolates, jewelry ect……..all of that doesn’t matter, what matters is how you treat your partner, if you treat them with love and respect and you always do your best to let them know they’re super important to you, whether it’s saying I love you by getting them their favorite candy or food, watching your favorite movies or something funny or weird together, or just sitting and talking in the middle of the night with each other, you know stuff like that…………..
As long as you’re doing your best to let them know in some way, that’s what’s important, not the fancy shmancy stuff (I know that’s not a word, but it’s staying there) what’s important is just being there and showing them you care, whether that’s on their worst day or best day, even if you’re angry at each other, you should still always let each other know you love one another, no matter the situation.
Work for each other as well, because that’s also very important, never ever take the other for granted and always appreciate one another. Try not to give each other a hard time and always support each other in everything you guys do, but also look out for each other as well, because all of that is where the strongest love lies, so make sure to hold on tightly, because once you have something like that believe me………you don’t ever want to let that go, so always be sure to keep these in mind and I hope you all have a great day and for those celebrating Valentines Day, I hope you enjoy it.
All The Love ❤ ❤
Disclaimer: I’m gonna get a little cheesy here so if you don’t want to read this part, you may skip it, which i’m sure you will, maybe, I don’t know ha…….
P.S. Just wanted to send a huge I love you to my guy, although we don’t celebrate Valentines Day, I still want him to know that I love him with all of my heart and I know we aren’t able to be together at the moment, but I just want you to know that i’m really grateful and super lucky to have you, you’re my world and i’m just really thankful for you, I love you load my love, forever and always ❤ ❤