Tag: Insight

Talks Of Conversations….

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Good Morning, I hope you all having a good one and that your day is going well so far! It’s been a while that I’ve wrote a post during the morning hours, normally I tend to write between the early afternoons when morning is just transitioning toward the afternoon or around the late evenings….so morning posts are a bit rare for me, but sometimes I’ll start writing in the morning, but most of time, my posts don’t get done until the afternoon, I guess it depends when I feel I have things to say!

Speaking of things to say, you ever have a lot that you want to get out and then you do, but then you wonder if you’ve said everything alright!? Like in the moment you express how you’re feeling it and you try to find the best words possible so it doesn’t come off a certain way while expressing those thoughts and feelings, yet you still find yourself wondering if everything you said came out okay…..it’s a very hard line at times to know that what you’re saying, is being processed well! We can’t help our emotions sometimes, no matter how much we try to keep it from being taken a certain…..those things can be a little out of our control!!

The reason I’m writing this the way I am is because, yesterday I went and recorded a new episode for my podcast and the topic I’ll admit was a bit on the gray area side, but it was something I felt needed to be expressed, it’s related in a more personal manner without trying to give away all the details, I’m not one to share super personal issues and that are going on in my personal life, because not everyone needs to know all the details, but if there is something within my personal life that I feel strongly on to share and turn it into something a little helpful then I’m going to try and do my best to share it in a more insightful kind of way if that makes sense!?

There’s some stuff that has been going on within my life, but I don’t talk on them due to the fact that it is pretty personal and are most of the time private situations that you would rather sort with the party of people either in the situation or where you feel more comfortable expressing to those who you feel close to about either the whole situation or just part of the situation going on! You never want to air out any dirty laundry that you had in mind to get to washing, but never actually got around to or because some people don’t mind them being out in the open, even when you’ve tried to tell them, it’s not a good idea, yet you find them out there anyway!

I know there are some people that don’t mind the drama of others, but I’m never going to fully put any of my personal issues out there for everyone to see, I don’t like confrontation, if I have an problem with someone or about something, I would want to sort it with that person or whoever is involved and if it’s just something and not someone, I like to see if I’m able to handle it first and come up with some kind of solution and if I know I’m having a bit of an issue, I’ll then ask someone for a bit of help not always because I’m one where if I do have a bit of a problem, I’ll go a long while before actually telling someone I’d like help and sometimes people closest to me will sense I’m having some trouble and will offer help without me asking, but yeah….plus not everyone likes others being in their business anyway!

That all being said….if there is something you have in your heart to say, don’t be afraid to say it, even though I’m not one to fully go into detail about my life and what is happening privately speaking, if you find that going into details about what you’re feeling works best for you, whether it’s blogging about it, speaking about it in different ways do what you feel is best for you, I know some people find more relief that way when speaking on private matters in these and many different kind of ways, if you’re someone that doesn’t mind having your drama in the open then hey more power to you! I’m not that kind of person, but I know people live their lives differently and you can’t control how other people do things!

I prefer to keep personal issues personal, unless there’s something I feel I want to say with the situation without deeply diving into it, the only way that I will is if I’m really close to someone and they ask or if people around me already know about the situation, however if we’re talking publicly on these type of platforms, if there’s a topic in the situation that stands out to be important, I will do my best to take what stands out and turn it into some kind of positive/insight in case someone out there may be dealing with a similar problem and is looking for a little advice…..I’m hoping all of this made somewhat of sense!

All The Love ❤ ❤

Lexa

Did I Mention It’s March Already!? Yeah……

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Soooo for those who didn’t know, which i’m sure you might’ve, but if not, we had a leap year this year which means that the month of February had a extra day in it and I gotta say, yesterday was probably one of the longest days ever, well at least it felt like was, the day kinda took it’s time yesterday which isn’t bad, it was just pretty long is all, but February is now over and we have entered the month of March……already!? I say this, but March kinda took a while to get here I suppose, if you really think about it, each month so far has really, taken it’s time, which doesn’t happen often…….

Maybe it’s just the year for it, who knows really……Man March has started out with quite the approach, a lot is happening to where you’re just having to feel prepared, yet sometimes you wonder if you’ve prepared the proper way for it, does that make sense!? Some things can still seem unclear,

but you’re having to trust that things will work out fine, even when you’re finding it a little hard you know!? I guess we just need to roll with the punches as best as we can and keep positive even when we’re having to push through it all……..it’ll be alright though, sure it may seem like it’s everywhere and we’re having to take it as it’s coming, but it’ll be alright, the month just started right!? We gotta have some positive mindset on it.

All The Love ❤ ❤

Lexa

Trusting Our Own Insight…..

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When it comes to our own insight on things, we don’t really trust ourselves a lot of the time and that’s because we tend to worry about all these different things that could happen and so because of that we become hesitate to want to try or share things that we feel we should try and or share, we question a lot of things, way more than we should actually.

We think too much on the worst parts than the possible best parts that could come from the things we share, as well as how we feel, sometimes even when something may feel right to us, we still feel unsure about it, which I guess is a natural reaction, I mean if it was something big then you’re going to get that kind of feeling right!? Whose to say though that,

We shouldn’t at least see about it…..if there’s an idea that we have in our minds should we not go forth with it!? If we just trust ourselves a little more with the things that we feel, who knows just where we will possibly be or go even, we won’t really know unless we take that step right!?

All The Love ❤ ❤

Lexa

No Need To Try So Hard…..

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Ask yourself this question…..why do we try so hard!? Did you answer it!? If so what did you say!? When we try hard to get things right, most often we find that it turns out not so right all the time, why is that!? Well it’s exactly what it is, we’re trying too hard, when in reality, we don’t need to.

Now you might be saying to yourself, well how else are we meant to do it!? Try hard a little less possibly….!? Yes I know how exactly!? Well for one, we gotta relax and chill out, breathe and let things flow at a natural state,

When we try too hard, we create resistance, which also invites stress, causing us to feel overwhelmed by everything and let me tell you it’s not a great feeling you know……we’re only adding pressure to ourselves by doing that, if we constantly worry about things not being a certain way and trying to get it right all the time, we wouldn’t have things be as natural as they are would we!? It’s okay to push yourself harder then you might normally at times, but when you start trying so hard to the point where you’re stressing yourself out, that is the moment where you need to step back and take a couple of breathers otherwise, you’re going to drive yourself mad.

Although it’s great to want to push yourself to be better, we don’t always have to try so hard to do that, we can do that and do our best all at the same time, minus the stress and feelings of being overwhelmed, just because something may seem or feel not all that great, doesn’t mean that is isn’t all that great, sometimes we may need to just relook at things or tweak something in order for it to make sense and come out right…..

It’s good to go on what you feel, but sometimes what we may feel to be not so good in our heads, actually isn’t all that bad, just keep that in mind……

All The Love ❤ ❤

Lexa